REL 200 - The Eternal Family Topics from the Teacher's Manual 1 Coming Forth of "The Family: A Proclamation to the World" . . . . . . . . . . . 1 2 Prophets and Apostles Solemnly Proclaim . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5 = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 6 The Family Is Central to Heavenly Father's Plan . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21 • Robert D. Hales, "The Eternal Family," Ensign, Nov. 1996, 64–67. • David A. Bednar, "More Diligent and Concerned at Home," Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2009, 17–20. • Elder M. Russell Ballard , "What Matters Most Is What Lasts Longest" - https://www.lds.org/liahona/2005/11/what-matters-most-is-what-lasts-longest.p1?lang=eng • Handbook 2: Administering the Church [2010], 1.1.1, 1.1.4, and 1.4.1 (if available). = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 3 Our Divine Potential . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9 Genesis 1:27; Isaiah 55:8–9; Acts 17:29; Hebrews 12:9; 1 John 3:1; 4:8–9; 1 Nephi 9:6; 2 Nephi 9:20; Moroni 8:18; Doctrine and Covenants 76:4; 88:41; 130:22 • Dieter F. Uchtdorf, "Four Titles," Ensign or Liahona, May 2013, 58–61. • Gospel Topics, "Becoming Like God," lds.org/topics Martins, "The Body: First Stewardship & Liahona of the Spirit" Q: How does the Atonement of Jesus Christ affect our lives? (Pres. Dieter F. Uchtdorf) With the Atonement, life is an ennobling, inspiring journey of growth and development that leads to eternal life in the presence of our Heavenly Father. Q: How did President Uchtdorf define "discipleship"? Discipleship is a lifelong journey following our Savior. Q: "When God works us, no one and nothing can stand us." Q: How does Latter-day Saint doctrine envision (or imagine) exaltation? (gospel topics) Purified and elevated relationships = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 4 The Family and the Great Plan of Happiness . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13 Moses 1:27–39; Doctrine and Covenants 49:15–17 • Dallin H. Oaks, "No Other Gods," Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2013, 72–75. • M. Russell Ballard, "The Atonement and the Value of One Soul," Ensign or Liahona, May 2004, 84–87. • Julie B. Beck, "Teaching the Doctrine of the Family," Ensign, Mar. 2011, 12–17. Q: How can our priorities in life be "turned upside down"? (Elder Dallin H. Oaks) By spiritual apathy and undisciplined appetites = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 7 Marriage between a Man and a Woman Is Ordained of God . . . . . . . . . . . 26 Doctrine and Covenants 49:15–17; Moses 3:21–24 • D. Todd Christofferson, "Why Marriage, Why Family," Ensign or Liahona, May 2015, 50–53. • Dallin H. Oaks, "No Other Gods," Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2013, 72–75. • Sheri L. Dew, "It Is Not Good for Man or Woman to Be Alone," Ensign, Nov. 2001, 12–14. • "The Divine Institution of Marriage," mormonnewsroom.org/article/the-divineinstitution-of-marriage. • Gospel Topics, "Same-Sex Marriage," lds.org/topics. Q: What can we say to those who say they can't do enough because their circumstances will not allow it? (Elder D. Todd Christofferson - Why Marriage, Why Family) Much that is good, much that is essential--even sometimes all that is necessary for now--can be achieved in less than ideal circumstances. Q: What can we say to those who ignore or abandon marriage and family in search of self-fulfillment and individual autonomy? (Elder D. Todd Christofferson, Why Marriage, Why Family) many things are good, many are important, but only a few are essential. Q: According to Elder D. Todd Christofferson, how can we attain "the most complete meaning of our having been made in the image of God"? (Elder D. Todd Christofferson, Why Marriage, Why Family) In the matrimonial union of male and female as one Q: Rather than just being about "the love and happiness of adults", what does a family built on the marriage of a man and woman provide? (Elder D. Todd Christofferson, Why Marriage, Why Family) the best setting for the birth of children ... and the best environment for the learning and preparation ... for a successful mortal life and eternal life in the world to come Q: According to German theologian Dietrich Bonhoeffer, what position do we occupy in this life through marriage? (Elder D. Todd Christofferson - Why Marriage, Why Family) We become a link in the chain of the generations = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = Topic: Dating and Courtship = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = Topic: Deciding to Marry ... and with Whom Q: According to Elder Boyd K. Packer, what must one do to obtain inspired wisdom in seeking a spouse? (Elder Boyd K. Packer) Live the standards of the Church, and you must pray constantly for the wisdom to recognize those qualities upon which a successful union = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 24 Single Adult Church Members . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 99 - Lecture online: "While Marriage Doesn't Come" 1 Corinthians 12:12–20, 25–27 • Gordon B. Hinckley, "A Conversation with Single Adults," Ensign, Mar. 1997, 58–63. • Spencer J. Condie, "Claim the Exceeding Great and Precious Promises," Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2007, 16–18. Martins - Waiting for Marriage and Deciding Who's "the One" Q: According to President Hinckley what should single members of the Church do while they are still trying to find an eternal companion? (President Gordon B. Hinckley - online reading) Don't wear out your lives wandering about in the wasteland of self-pity. Refine your mind and skills in a chosen field of discipline. Q: According to Elder Oaks, what can single sisters do while marriage prospects do not materialize? (Elder Dallin H. Oaks - The Dedication of a Lifetime) Prepare yourself for life—even a single life—by education, experience, and planning. Don’t wait for happiness to be thrust upon you. Seek it out in service and learning. Make a life for yourself. And trust in the Lord. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 16 The Sacred Powers of Procreation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 64 Psalm 24:3–4; Matthew 5:8; Jacob 2:31–35; Alma 39:3–5, 9; Doctrine and Covenants 42:22–24; 121:45–46 • David A. Bednar, "We Believe in Being Chaste," Ensign or Liahona, May 2013, 41–44. • Dallin H. Oaks, "Pornography," Ensign or Liahona, May 2005, 87–90. • Linda S. Reeves, "Protection from Pornography—a Christ-Focused Home," Ensign or Liahona, May 2014, 15–17. • "Sexual Purity," For the Strength of Youth (booklet, 2011), 35–37. - Lecture Notes - Chastity (Before & After Marriage) & Intimacy in Marriage Q: What happens when persons entertain evil thoughts long enough for the Spirit to withdraw? (Elder Oaks - Pornography) they lose their spiritual protection and they are subject to the power and direction of the evil one. Q: What are the dangers of Pornography? (Elder Oaks - Pornography) Pornography impairs one’s ability to enjoy a normal emotional, romantic, and spiritual relationship with a person of the opposite sex. It erodes the moral barriers that stand against inappropriate, abnormal, or illegal behavior. Q: According to Elder Bednar, what is our view of intimate relations in mortality? (Elder Bednar - We Believe in Being Chaste) they are ... one of the ultimate expressions of our divine nature and potential, and a way of strengthening emotional and spiritual bonds between husband and wife Q: According to Elder Bednar, what is "one of the ultimate ironies in eternity"? (Elder Bednar - We Believe in Being Chaste) the adversary, who is miserable precisely because he has no physical body, entices us to share in his misery through the improper use of our bodies = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 8 Gender and Eternal Identity . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30 Ether 3:14-16; Doctrine and Covenants 76:22-24; Moses 2:27; "The Family: A Proclamation to the World" • Robert D. Hales, "The Plan of Salvation: A Sacred Treasure of Knowledge to Guide Us," Ensign, Oct. 2015. • Jeffrey R. Holland, "Helping Those Who Struggle with Same-Gender Attraction," Ensign, Oct. 2007, 42–45. • Dallin H. Oaks, "Same-Gender Attraction," Ensign, Oct. 1995, 7–14. • Gospel Topics, "Same-Sex Attraction," lds.org/topics. • "Love One Another: A Discussion on Same-Sex Attraction," mormonsandgays.org. If students raise questions about the Church's policy regarding homosexuality, please refer them to this official Church website. Q: What is the difference between our freedom and our agency? (Elder Dallin H. Oaks - Same-Gender Attraction) Our freedom can be limited by various conditions of mortality, but God’s gift of agency cannot be limited by outside forces, because it is the basis for our accountability to him. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 12 Temple Ordinances and Covenants . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 48 13 Improving Temple Worship . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 52 Doctrine and Covenants 97:10–17; 109:12–24; 124:28, 36–42, 55 • Boyd K. Packer, "The Holy Temple," Ensign, Oct. 2010, 29–35. • D. Todd Christofferson, "The Power of Covenants," Ensign or Liahona, May 2009, 19–23. - Lecture Notes - Temple Ordinances Psalm 24:3–5; John 2:13–16; Doctrine and Covenants 109:10–13, 20–22 • Richard G. Scott, "Temple Worship: The Source of Strength and Power in Times of Need," Ensign or Liahona, May 2009, 43–45. • L. Lionel Kendrick, "Enhancing Our Temple Experience," Ensign, May 2001, 78–79. • Preparing to Enter the Holy Temple (booklet, 2002). = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 15 Eternal Marriage . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 60 Doctrine and Covenants 131:5-6; 132:1–24 • Russell M. Nelson, "Celestial Marriage," Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2008, 92–95. • "Honorable, Happy, Successful Marriage," chapter 18 in Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Spencer W. Kimball (2006), 189–201. • Cree-L Kofford, "Marriage in the Lord's Way, Part One," Ensign, June 1998, 7–12. - Lecture Notes - Differentiating Marriage & Eternal Marriage Elder Richard G. Scott - Conference Report, April 2009 "Temple Worship: The Source of Strength and Power in Times of Need" https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2009/04/temple-worship-the-source-of-strength-and-power-in-times-of-need?lang=eng = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 17 The Commandment to Multiply and Replenish the Earth . . . . . . . . . . . . 69 21 Rearing Children in Love and Righteousness . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 85 Genesis 1:27–28; 9:1; 35:11 • Neil L. Andersen, "Children," Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2011, 28–31. • Russell M. Nelson, "Abortion: An Assault on the Defenseless," Ensign, Oct. 2008, 32–37. (new) • Jeffrey R. Holland, "A Prayer for the Children," Ensign or Liahona, May 2003, 85–87 - https://www.lds.org/ensign/2003/05/a-prayer-for-the-children?lang=eng Luke 15:11-20; Ephesians 6:4 • Richard G. Scott, "Make the Exercise of Faith Your First Priority," Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2014, 92–95. - Lecture Notes - What About Children? Q: How many children should a truly righteous couple have? (Elder Neil Andersen - Children) When to have a child and how many children to have are [sacred] decisions to be made between a husband and wife and the Lord. Q: Why do Latter-day Saints baptize their children when they turn eight years of age? (Doctrine & Covenants 68:25-28) The Lord commanded Q: What was Elder Russell M. Nelson's response to the argument of "individual right of choice" raised in debates about abortion? Terminating the life of a developing baby involves two individuals with separate bodies, brains, and hearts. A woman’s choice for her own body does not include the right to deprive her baby of life—and a lifetime of choices that her child would make. Q: Should parents ensure that all their children grow up with a complete set of skill, talents, and abilities? (President Howard W. Hunter #1) Q: Is having a troublesome or worldly child a sure sign that the parents have failed in their responsibilities? (President Howard W. Hunter #2) Q: Is sexual abstinence the best form of contraception (i.e. birth control) for married couples? (Dr. Homer Ellsworth; I Have a Question: "Is there some kind of ‘gospel family-planning’?") = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 23 Providing for Temporal Needs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 95 Mark 6:1–3; Luke 2:51–52 • M. Russell Ballard, "Becoming Self-Reliant—Spiritually and Physically," Ensign, Mar. 2009, 50–55 - https://www.lds.org/ensign/2009/03/becoming-self-reliant-spiritually-and-physically?lang=eng • Robert D. Hales, "Becoming Provident Providers Temporally and Spiritually," Ensign or Liahona, May 2009, 7–10 - https://www.lds.org/ensign/2009/05/becoming-provident-providers-temporally-and-spiritually?lang=eng • Pres. Boyd K. Packer, The Gospel--The Foundation for Our Career - https://www.lds.org/ensign/1982/05/the-gospel-the-foundation-for-our-career?lang=eng - Lecture Notes - Work & Education Q: How much education should a person plan to obtain? (President Gordon B. Hinckley) Q: What was President Hinckley’s promise regarding education? (President Gordon B. Hinckley) Q: "The Lord will open the windows of heaven according to our [need], and not according to our [greed]." (President Gordon B. Hinckley - Tithing: An Opportunity to Prove Our Faithfulness) Q: What are some of the fundamentals of the Church Welfare System? (President Boyd K. Packer; The Gospel--The Foundation for Our Career) Q: What ordinary virtues influence our careers more than technical training? (President Boyd K. Packer; The Gospel--The Foundation for Our Career) Q: What common attitude at work has almost destroyed the economy of the world? (President Boyd K. Packer; The Gospel--The Foundation for Our Career) Q: What are the principles of provident living? (Elder Robert Hales - Becoming Provident Providers Temporally and Spiritually) joyfully living within our means, being content with what we have, avoiding excessive debt, and diligently saving and preparing for rainy-day emergencies Q: What happens when we live at the subsistence level due to bad financial choices? (Elder Robert Hales - Becoming Provident Providers Temporally and Spiritually) we become depressed, our self-worth is affected, and our relationships with family, friends, neighbors, and the Lord are weakened. We do not have the time, energy, or interest to seek spiritual things • Provident Living website, providentliving.org - Lecture Notes - Finances • President Gordon B. Hinckley - Tithing: An Opportunity to Prove Our Faithfulness - https://www.lds.org/ensign/1982/05/tithing-an-opportunity-to-prove-our-faithfulness?lang=eng • Marvin J. Ashton, "One for the Money," Ensign, Sept. 2007, 37–39. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 9 The Divine Roles and Responsibilities of Men . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35 Matthew 2:13-16; Ephesians 5:23, 25-33; 1 Timothy 5:8; Doctrine and Covenants 75:28; 83:2, 4; 121:36–46 • Richard G. Scott, "The Eternal Blessings of Marriage," Ensign or Liahona, May 2011, 94–97 - https://www.lds.org/ensign/2011/05/the-eternal-blessings-of-marriage?lang=eng • D. Todd Christofferson, "Let Us Be Men," Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2006, 46–48 - https://www.lds.org/ensign/2006/11/let-us-be-men.p1?lang=eng • Linda K. Burton, "We'll Ascend Together," Ensign or Liahona, May 2015, 29–32 - https://www.lds.org/ensign/2015/05/saturday-morning-session/well-ascend-together.p1?lang=eng • Howard W. Hunter, "Being a Righteous Husband and Father," Ensign, Nov. 1994, 66–70 - https://www.lds.org/ensign/1994/11/being-a-righteous-husband-and-father?lang=eng • "The Sacred Callings of Fathers and Mothers," chapter 15 in Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Ezra Taft Benson (2014), 191–96. Q: "Marriage provides an ideal setting for [overcoming any tendency to be selfish or self-centered]." (Elder Richard G. Scott - The Eternal Blessings of Marriage) Q: According to Elder Scott, why are we counseled to marry early in life? (Elder Richard G. Scott - The Eternal Blessings of Marriage) to avoid developing inappropriate character traits that are hard to change. Q: "Be faithful in your marriage covenants in [thought, word, and deed]." (Pres. Howard W. Hunter - Being a Righteous Husband and Father) Q: "The priesthood cannot work out its destiny, nor can God’s purposes be fulfilled, without [our helpmates]." (Pres. Howard W. Hunter - Being a Righteous Husband and Father) Q: "Effective family leadership ... requires both [quantity and quality] time." (Pres. Howard W. Hunter - Being a Righteous Husband and Father) Q: According to Pres. Hunter, how would a husband exercise unrighteous dominion in the home? (Pres. Howard W. Hunter - Being a Righteous Husband and Father) to operate independent of or without regard to the feelings and counsel of his wife in governing the family. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 10 The Divine Roles and Responsibilities of Women . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 40 2 Timothy 1:5; 3:14-15; Alma 56:47-48; 57:21; Doctrine and Covenants 25:1-3, 10, 13-16 • Dieter F. Uchtdorf, "The Influence of Righteous Women," Ensign, Sept. 2009, 5–9 - https://www.lds.org/ensign/2009/09/the-influence-of-righteous-women?lang=eng • Pres. Gordon B. Hinckley, "Women of the Church" - https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1996/10/women-of-the-church?lang=eng • Elder M. Russell Ballard, "Women of Righteousness" - https://www.lds.org/ensign/2002/04/women-of-righteousness?lang=eng • "Understand the Divine Roles of Women," Ensign, Feb. 2009, 67. • "The Women of the Church," chapter 20 in Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Spencer W. Kimball (2006), 214–25. - Lecture notes: Work & Education Q: What mandate is placed on righteous women who made convenants with the Lord? (Elder M. Russell Ballard - Women of Righteousness) Every sister in this Church who has made covenants with the Lord has a divine mandate to help save souls, to lead the women of the world, to strengthen the homes of Zion, and to build the kingdom of God. Q: What happens when a woman stands for truth and righteousness? (Elder M. Russell Ballard - Women of Righteousness) Every sister who stands for truth and righteousness diminishes the influence of evil. Q: What impact does a woman of God have on others? (Elder M. Russell Ballard - Women of Righteousness) Every sister who lives as a woman of God becomes a beacon for others to follow and plants seeds of righteous influence that will be harvested for decades to come. Q: The Prophet Joseph Smith told the sisters: "If you live up to your privileges, [the angels cannot be restrained from being your associates.]" (Pres. Dieter F. Uchtdorf - The Influence of Righteous Women) Q: What would be a good slogan for relationships in the workplace? (President Gordon B. Hinckley) Do your job, but keep your distance. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 18 Nurturing the Marriage Relationship . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 73 Matthew 19:3-8; Ephesians 5:25, 28-31; Doctrine and Covenants 25:5, 13-15; 42:22 • Russell M. Nelson, "Nurturing Marriage," Ensign or Liahona, May 2006, 36–38 - https://www.lds.org/ensign/2006/05/nurturing-marriage?lang=eng • David A. Bednar, "Marriage Is Essential to His Eternal Plan," Ensign, June 2006, 82–87 - https://www.lds.org/ensign/2006/06/marriage-is-essential-to-his-eternal-plan?lang=eng • L. Whitney Clayton, "Marriage: Watch and Learn," Ensign or Liahona, May 2013, 83–85 - https://www.lds.org/ensign/2013/05/marriage-watch-and-learn?lang=eng - Lecture Notes - Dealing with Differences in Marriage Q: What does marriage bring, more than any other human relationship? (Elder Russell M. Nelson, Nurturing Marriage) Marriage brings greater possibilities for happiness than does any other human relationship. Q: How can married couples fall short of their full potential? (Elder Russell M. Nelson, Nurturing Marriage) They let their romance become rusty, take each other for granted, allow other interests or clouds of neglect to obscure the vision of what their marriage really could be. Q: What specific actions would strengthen a marriage? (Elder Russell M. Nelson, Nurturing Marriage) to appreciate one another; to communicate well with the spouse; and to contemplate in the temple. Q: What thought must be kept in mind when a couple faces major differences of opinions, tastes, and behaviors? (Elder Cree-L Kofford) We made a commitment to God, we made a commitment to each other, and we will keep those commitments President Gordon B. Hinckley "I Believe" - Ensign, August 1992 We have many failures in the world, but the greatest of these, in my judgment, is that failure which is found in broken homes. Immeasurable is the heartache. The root of most of this lies in selfishness. The cure for most of it can be found in repentance on the part of the offender and forgiveness on the part of the offended. Every marriage is subject to occasional stormy weather. But with patience, mutual respect, and a spirit of forbearance, we can weather these storms. Where mistakes have been made, there can be apology, repentance, and forgiveness. But there must be willingness to do so on the part of both parties. ... I have learned that the real essence of happiness in marriage lies not so much in romance as in an anxious concern for the comfort and well-being of one’s companion. Thinking of self alone and of the gratification of personal desires will build neither trust, love, nor happiness. Only when there is unselfishness will love, with its concomitant qualities, flourish and blossom. Marriage, in its truest sense, is a partnership of equals, with neither exercising dominion over the other, but, rather, with each encouraging and assisting the other in whatever responsibilities and aspirations he or she might have. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 25 Exercising Faith During Difficult Family Circumstances . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 103 1 Nephi 16:34–39; 17:1–4 • David A. Bednar, "The Atonement and the Journey of Mortality," Ensign, Apr. 2012, 40–47 - https://www.lds.org/ensign/2012/04/the-atonement-and-the-journey-of-mortality?lang=eng • Elder M. Russell Ballard , "What Matters Most Is What Lasts Longest" - https://www.lds.org/liahona/2005/11/what-matters-most-is-what-lasts-longest.p1?lang=eng • "Strengthening the Family: Adapting to Circumstances," Ensign, Dec. 2005, 34–35 - https://www.lds.org/ensign/2005/12/strengthening-the-family-adapting-to-circumstances?lang=eng - Lecture Notes - Divorce - Martins - Overcoming Challenges The enabling power of the Atonement of Christ strengthens us to do things we could never do on our own. Sometimes I wonder if in our latter-day world of ease—in our world of microwave ovens and cell phones and air-conditioned cars and comfortable homes—we ever learn to acknowledge our daily dependence upon the enabling power of the Atonement. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 11 Preparing for Eternal Marriage . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44 Doctrine and Covenants 88:40 • Dieter F. Uchtdorf, "The Reflection in the Water" (Church Educational System devotional, Nov. 1, 2009), lds.org/media-library. • Jeffrey R. Holland, "Be Not Afraid, Only Believe" (evening with Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, Feb. 6, 2015), lds.org/broadcasts. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 5 The Conditions of Mortality . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17 2 Nephi 2:27–29; Abraham 3:25 • David A. Bednar, "Things as They Really Are," Ensign, June 2010, 16–25. • David A. Bednar, "The Atonement and the Journey of Mortality," Ensign, Apr. 2012, 40–47. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 14 Becoming Saviors on Mount Zion . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 56 Doctrine and Covenants 138:27–37, 58–59 • David A. Bednar, "The Hearts of the Children Shall Turn," Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2011, 24–27. • Quentin L. Cook, "Roots and Branches," Ensign or Liahona, May 2014, 44–48. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 19 Building Christ-Centered Lives and Homes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 77 John 15:1–5, 10–11; Helaman 5:12 • Henry B. Eyring, "Our Perfect Example," Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2009, 70–73. • Richard G. Scott, "For Peace at Home," Ensign or Liahona, May 2013, 29–31. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 20 Safeguarding Faith and Testimony . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 81 John 14:26–27; Ephesians 4:11–14; 1 Nephi 15:23–24; 2 Nephi 31:19–20; Alma 5:45–46; Helaman 3:28–30; Doctrine and Covenants 11:13–14; 21:4–6 • Dieter F. Uchtdorf, "Come, Join with Us," Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2013, 21–24. • Jeffrey R. Holland, "Lord, I Believe," Ensign or Liahona, May 2013, 93–95. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 22 Creating a Successful Family . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 90 • Dallin H. Oaks, "Good, Better, Best," Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2007, 104–8. • Susan W. Tanner, "Did I Tell You … ?" Ensign or Liahona, May 2003, 73–75. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 26 Accountable before God . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 107 Matthew 18:1–6; Doctrine and Covenants 42:22–25; 93:39–44 • Jeffrey R. Holland, "The Tongue of Angels," Ensign or Liahona, May 2007, 16–18. • Richard G. Scott, "To Heal the Shattering Consequences of Abuse," Ensign or Liahona, May 2008, 40–43. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 27 Prophetic Warnings Concerning the Family . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 111 2 Timothy 3:1–7, 13 • Russell M. Nelson, "Faith and Families," Ensign, Mar. 2007, 36–41. • Quentin L. Cook, "Lamentations of Jeremiah: Beware of Bondage," Ensign or Liahona, Nov. 2013, 88–91. • Bonnie L. Oscarson, "Defenders of the Family Proclamation," Ensign or Liahona, May 2015, 14–17. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = 28 Promoting the Family as the Fundamental Unit of Society . . . . . . . . . . . 115 Alma 43:9, 30, 45, 48 • Thomas S. Monson, "Be Strong and of a Good Courage," Ensign or Liahona, May 2014, 66–69. • Dallin H. Oaks, "Balancing Truth and Tolerance," Ensign, Feb. 2013, 24–31. • L. Tom Perry, "Why Marriage and Family Matter—Everywhere in the World," Ensign or Liahona, May 2015, 39–42. • "Transcript of News Conference on Religious Freedom and Nondiscrimination" (Jan. 27, 2015), mormonnewsroom.org/article/publicstatement-on-religiousfreedom-and-nondiscrimination.